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Sex 3 Times Daily!
Desire, discipline, and the strange arithmetic of aliveness.
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Men, men, men! Wow! It is not easy to be one of us. At times, it is almost downright impossible. Women if you find yourself frustrated often, show this article to your man!
Inwardly, in our depths, we know that women have the power with all their charming weapons they use expertly to draw us in, like catching fish in a barrel. Those heels with colorful toes; their jeans that seem to have been tattooed to their ass; or that slit up their thigh in their skirts, right up to Heaven on Earth between their legs, where we all long to go and be. And do not even think about those push-up cleavage bras doused in oceans of perfume that make us weak and want to dive in, suck those nipples, and the hell with the world.
And opposite all this, we men must be super strong on the outside, but tender like bunnies, soft and cuddly inside with our feelings, understanding, sensitivity, and listening, all wrapped up in intimacy.
Yes, friends, we all know that in the long run we men lose in the battle of the sexes. But do not implode. There is hope for each of us, for though they have all that feminine mystique; we have our own mystique, guaranteed to maintain our sanity and sexual pleasure to Mount Everest proportions!
And here is how! DO NOT CUM, do not have a physical orgasm. And all this without Viagra or Cialis or getting “blue balls.” You will learn how to do it in a few minutes. But first let us explore what happens to us when we have a physical/external orgasm.
After every external orgasm, every major organ in our body is depleted of its energy. This is the reason we usually want to sleep after we cum.
- For most of us, our cock loses its hard-on, but most importantly, psychologically and socially, we withdraw from our partner.
- Gone are the kisses, the hugs, the holding hands and of course, the conversation and the ‘I love you’s.’ And your partner is offended by your withdrawal, at least unconsciously.
All this need not be done. And trust me, friend. It worked for me with Carol Ann. I practiced this method five times a week for two years.
Step 1
When you are nearing your orgasm, take a deep breath and push the air down to your lower stomach.
Step 2
As you push the air down, pull in your buttocks. It will only take a few practices to perfect it, and voila, you will become a STUD. A new you! And your partner will love you for it!
What happens to us internally? All that energy we normally lose with an external orgasm travels within us from our chakras (the energy centers of our body), from our forehead to our chest to our groin and up our spine to our brain in a circular motion, filling us with lots of energy for the day. You will be amazed, as I was and still am.
Carol Ann and I
For almost two years, about 5 days a week, until she left me to reunite with her first lover, we would wake up in the morning, do ‘it’ for about 15 minutes, then have breakfast and usually play golf or visit a museum, see a film, or whatever.
For lunch we would go to a restaurant for oysters and a few beers, then return to her backyard garden and have a joint or a bottle of Freixenet, (an inexpensive bottle of wine that, in my opinion, is equal in taste to a $75 bottle of Moet and Chandon), then take an afternoon siesta. Note: During morning and afternoon sex, I would not have an external orgasm.
Upon waking up at about 6:00 pm, we would either go out for dinner and dance or BBQ and watch TV at home. Then bed, at which time I would have a physical external orgasm. At the end of a GREAT day, I would sleep like a baby.
CONCLUSION
Doing this, my friend, your sex life will improve dramatically, like trading in an old Toyota for a new Porsche or Rolls Royce, resulting in you feeling like a complete and total MAN in the truest sense of the word.
And I guarantee this for you! Your partner will love you even more for the change! Gone are the days of worrying about getting it up! Gone is the need for Viagra or Cialis, or therapy, or any other assistance. Gone is the feeling of guilt from knowing you are not performing at your best and that you are not pleasing your partner as you should be doing.
Get these books for more in-depth information: “Taoist Secrets of Love Cultivating Male Sexual Energy,” and “Healing Love Through the Tao: Cultivating Female Sexual Energy.” Both books are written by Mantak Chia.


All the best!
Raymond Coppola (AKA Ray-man)
ray@outrageousthinking.life
THE PIROUETTE
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we explore the pleasures.
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how can we not believe in what we do not know
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